This roller coaster of a journey has suddenly taken a bad turn. There is track missing that I didn’t see before. It’s going to hurt. Such is life right now. No one said the journey was all about the good positive things. At times its felt like there are just no more tears I can shed. It’s taken almost a week and 1/2 to get to where I feel numb. At times it still hurts so bad that I loose control, I just can’t hold the tears back. But it IS getting better.
Thank you friends for talking to me and helping me get some perspective or being comforting. It’s taken some time for me to realize what I really want or need. Feelings I’ve ignored for years to try to be a better partner, yet failing to do so. For that I am sorry. I made many mistakes, we both did. I hope we come out of this as better people.
Right now I think it is best to go try and see some people, to get out of my current surroundings for a bit. I hope that I can afford to do so. I don’t even know all the places I want to go.
As much as I want to leave, the feeling of responsibility is looming. I feel as if I can’t functionally get it all done. I know what needs to be done, but picking up the phone to do it is hurtful. I even had hell trying to make myself dinner. Not because it was hard, but because it was something I shared and enjoyed. Now it feels like a reminder of what I don’t have.
It is getting better slowly, VERY slowly. I know it will pass, but in those times of hurt, it seems really far away. I will try to be hopeful, but not everyday will be that way. I can’t thank people enough for being there when I really need a lift up. I can not do this on my own.